ART 20-20 HINDSIGHT
Look for the dark sunglasses and the caption [Art’s 20-20 Hindsight].
Hindsight 20-20 will be used in this book to help you have the foresight not to fall for the camouflaged deceptions.
Hindsight: Blindness
["IF I could have taken off my blinder and deep dark sunglasses some years back in the early part of my divorce, I would have done a lot of things differently. I would see everything in a different light and I would not have had a “do whatever it takes to keep the peace” attitude I my response or actions.
I would be able to believe that my X had an agenda and planned to use me as a tool of war against my happiness, my relationships,(family and social) my finances, and my children. I would be able to see that my children were being directly and indirectly used as pawns (a person or entity used to further the purposes of another), in this same agenda. Yes, some of the agenda was intentional and some was just plain unacceptable X Factor behavior]
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Read more in chapter titled: Method to Madness